Cause Effect essay
1st draft
201000003
Naeun Kang
Happiness goes around and comes around among people.
There is no doubt the most important thing in our life gives us happiness. Then, what is it? Money? Religion? Honor? It might be different to every each person. But, I believe relationship is the most important thing that we need to keep and value. Then, how can we take care of it? Express our feelings and emotion is the answer. We can make our relationship strong, and avoid conflicts in advance by expressing our emotion honestly.
First of all, we need to realize why human relationship is the most important one not money or rich life. Following example shows why relationship is worthy. I have lived with a home-stay family in America for 1 month. Before I went to there, I dreamed a beautiful life as I watched in several American films; however, when I arrived at the house where I would live from that time, I was totally despaired because the house was very dirty. It was very hard time to live in a terrible environment. But the day when I left the home, it was also very hard to say goodbye to my home-stay family. We got along with each other and became familiar by doing many things together; cooking, shopping, picnic, playing games, talking, watching TV shows together. Exactly, we became family. From this experience, I realized that however I was in a bad environment; I can bear and live thanks to people who stand by me. So, human relationship is invaluable thing in our life, and expressing our feelings to people next to you is the way to keep our relationship worthily.
First, expressing our emotion makes our relationship strong. Pleasant feelings such as thanks and love make our friends happy and when we see and feel they are happy, we can feel happy too. In my case, whenever I travel, I bring gifts for my friends and express thanks to them through it. Also, when they are given the present, they look very happy and express thanks to me, and when I see their happiness, I feel satisfaction and happiness. So happiness goes around and comes around by expressing our emotion. Meanwhile, when we express bad feelings such as worries and troubles, friends hear what we say understand our situation, emphasize us, and help us solve the problems. Through this process, the presence of friends can be a help and happiness each other, so the relationship become stronger.
On the one hand, we can avoid conflicts by expressing unpleasant feelings. Unless we tell honestly unsatisfied situation or unpleasant feeling to our friends, discontents would be building up and conflicts would deepen. When we express the dissatisfaction or unpleasant feelings, the important thing is not just telling them your bad feelings, but explaining why you are dissatisfied and what you want, which helps us understand each other and solve the troubles. So, when we express unpleasant feelings to friends honestly, the feelings can be eased and conflicts can be avoided in advance.
We can become closer, resolve conflicts and find happiness by expressing our feelings. A good human relationship makes happiness and can be a help in our life. There might be no doubt it is the precious present for us. So we need to take care of, value and keep it.
Cause Effect essay
ReplyDelete2nd draft
201000003
Naeun Kang
Happiness goes around and comes around among people.
There is no doubt the most important thing in our life gives us happiness. Then, what is it? Wealth? Religion? Honor? It might be different to every each person because the standard of happiness varies. But, I believe relationship is the most important thing in our life, which gives me happiness, so we need to keep and value. Then, how can we do it? Express our feelings and emotion is the answer. We can make our relationship strong, and avoid conflicts in advance by expressing our emotion honestly.
First of all, we need to realize why human relationship is the most important one not money or honor. Following example shows why relationship is worthy. I have lived with a home-stay family in America for 1 month. Before I went to there, I dreamed a beautiful life as I watched in several American films; however, when I arrived at the house where I would live from that time, I was totally despaired because the house was very dirty. It was very hard time to live in a terrible environment. But the day when I left the home, it was also very hard to say goodbye to my home-stay family. We got along with each other and became familiar by doing many things together; cooking, shopping, going on a picnic, playing games, talking, watching TV shows together. Exactly, we became family. From this experience, I realized that no matter how bad environment I was in, I can bear and live thanks to people who stand by me. Also I can be even happier when I laugh with people together surrounding me. There is an old saying that exactly shows what I realized. “Shared joy is double joy and shared sorrow is half-sorrow” So I believe human relationship is invaluable thing in our life, and expressing our feelings to people next to you is the way to keep our relationship worth.
First, we can make our relationship strong by expressing our emotion. Pleasant feelings such as thanks and love make our friends happy and when we see and feel they are happy, we can feel happiness as well. In my case, whenever I travel, I bring gifts for my friends to express thanks to them. When they are given the present, they look very happy and say thanks to me; when I see their happiness on their face, I feel satisfaction and happiness. So happiness goes around and comes around by expressing our emotion. Meanwhile, when we express bad feelings such as worries and troubles, friends hear what we say, understand our situation, emphasize us, and help us solve the problems. Through this process, the presence of friends itself can be a help and happiness for each other, consequently, the relationship become stronger.
On the one hand, we can avoid conflicts by expressing unpleasant feelings. Unless we tell honestly unsatisfied situation or unpleasant feeling to our friends, discontents would be building up and conflicts would deepen. When we express the dissatisfaction or unpleasant feelings, the important thing is not telling them your bad feelings only, but explaining why you are dissatisfied and what you want, which helps us understand each other and solve the troubles. When we express unpleasant feelings to friends honestly, as the result, the feelings can be eased and conflicts can be avoided in advance.
Happiness is caused by relationship, and we can become closer with people next to you, resolve conflicts with them and find happiness from there by expressing our feelings. A good human relationship makes happiness and can be a help in our life. There might be no doubt it is the eternal precious present for us. So try to look around you, and take care of, value and keep relationship.
Happiness Goes around and Comes around among People.
ReplyDeleteThere is no doubt the most important thing in our life gives us happiness. Then, what is it? Wealth? Religion? Honor? It might be different to every each person because the standard of happiness varies. But, I believe relationship is the most important thing in our life. It gives me happiness and I try to value it. Then, how can we value relationships? Express our feelings and emotion is the answer. We can make our relationship healthy, and avoid conflicts in advance by expressing our emotion honestly.
First of all, we need to realize why the most important thing is human relationships. Following example shows why relationship is worthy for me. I have lived with a home-stay family in America for 1 month. Before I went there, I dreamed a beautiful life as I watched in several American films; however, when I arrived at the house where I would live, I was totally despaired because the house was very dirty. It was really hard time to live in a terrible environment. But after 1 month, on the day when I should leave the home, to say goodbye to my home-stay family was also very hard. We got along with each other by doing many things together; cooking, shopping, going on a picnic, playing games, having small-talk, watching TV shows together. Exactly, we became family. From this experience, I realized that no matter how bad environment I was in, I could bear it thanks to people around me. Also I was even happier when I laughed with people together surrounding me than alone. There is an old saying that exactly shows what I realized. “Shared joy is double joy and shared sorrow is half-sorrow” So I believe human relationship is invaluable thing in our life, and we need to keep it healthy. Expressing our feelings is pretty good way for our relationships.
First, we can make our relationship strong by expressing our emotion. Pleasant feelings such as thanks and love make our friends happy and when we see and feel they are happy, we can feel happiness as well. In my case, whenever I travel, I bring gifts for my friends to show love to them. When they are given the present, they look very happy and express thanks to me; when I see their happiness on their face, I feel satisfaction and happiness. So happiness goes around and comes around by expressing our emotion. Meanwhile, when we express bad feelings such as worries and troubles, friends hear what we say, understand our situation, sympathize with our concerns, and help us to solve the problems. Through this process, the presence of friends itself can be a help and happiness for each other. Consequently, the relationships become stronger.
On the one hand, we can avoid conflicts by expressing unpleasant feelings. Unless we tell honestly unsatisfied situation or unpleasant feelings that we have toward our friends, discontents will be building up and conflicts will deepen. When we express the dissatisfaction or unpleasant feelings, the important thing is not telling them your bad feelings only, but explaining why you are dissatisfied and what you want from them. It helps us understand each other and solve the troubles. When we express unpleased feelings to friends honestly, as the result, the bad feelings can be eased and conflicts can be avoided in advance.
Happiness is caused by relationship, and we become closer with people next to you, resolve conflicts with them and find happiness by expressing our feelings. A healthy human relationship itself is happiness and a help in our life. There might be no doubt it is the eternal precious present for us. So try to look around you, and take care of, value and keep relationships.